I Think I Like You
A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.
I Think I Like You
Why we need to rethink our attachment styles (especially if we're anxious) | Ep 101
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Are you obsessed with your attachment style and "fixing" it? Perhaps, even more so, if you fall into the category of anxious attachment? As a fellow anxious attachment sufferer, I believe we've got it all wrong.
In today's episode, I'm bringing a reframe to:
- How we think about our attachment styles
- How it's not just our upbringing, but our current cultural environment and the way we date, that fosters less secure attachment
- How we shift from an anxious or avoidant attachment, to more secure
- How your attachment style it isn't a death sentence when it comes to relationships
You will benefit tremendously from this episode if you:
- Struggle with an anxious attachment style and fear you'll never become secure
- Have attempted to feel less anxious in the dating process or in a relationship, but nothing ever seems to change
- Think you're "bad" or not as good, because you suffer from an anxious attachment style
- Find you overanalyze your dates — are they secure? Are they not secure? Are they being avoidant?
- Believe you just have to meet a secure person if you want a relationship to work — but also fear that the number of secure people are running out
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