I Think I Like You
A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.
Episodes
128 episodes
We don't necessarily need our partners to come fully therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil | Ep 122
A few months prior, I caught the wedding announcement for my friend and colleague, Kara Lowentheil, in the NY Times. It wasn't the flowers or he...
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Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life | Ep 121
What's your perception of yourself? How do you view yourself? Based on that, what do you believe is or isn't available to you? What do you think you can have? What do you think you deserve?I'm posing these questions in relation to roman...
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Part III: How our drive to be good, to be high achievers, to put other people's needs before our own keeps us single or stuck in unhealthy relationships | Ep 120
Today's episode marks part three in our series exploring patterns of the eldest daughter/hero child, and how that either leaves us chronically single or in really unfulfilling relationships — or some mix of the two!Today's episode gets ...
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Part II: Why eldest daughters/hero children can remain chronically single or just have so much resistance to dating | Ep 119
New Offerings!The Situation-ship SootherThe Breakup / Post-Divor...
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<Mini Ep> Why do women who don’t do the work, who are are just as messed up as the rest of us, find great people? Why does it just never happen for me?
I love this question and even more so, this listener for asking it. In this quick mini ep, I'm expanding upon the following points below — i.e. reasons why I think this is the case:There are people (men/women alike) who say or think...
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Part I: How Eldest Daughters/Hero Children Struggle in Relationships | Ep 118
Today kicks off a three part, maybe four (lots to discuss!), that goes deep into a subject I broached on Instagram a few weeks back: Eldest daughters/hero children – i.e. the go...
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<Mini Ep> Go ahead, be hopeless. You don't need hope for your dating life.
Hello, friends. Popping in with a short and sweet episode — something I plan to do more of — digging into the following question I received from a follower in an 'Ask Me Anything' poll I did on Instagram earlier this week:What if I ...
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How do we know if we're settling? How did I know my husband was the one? Should I do a prenup? And more in this Q+A Episode |Ep 117
It's the thick of summer and we're digging into a Q+A episode this week. Thank you so much to those of you who submitted questions!In this episode I'm talking about:Prenups. Do we get them? Not get them?How did I kn...
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My ultimate goal with clients isn't marriage | Ep 116
Private Coaching Spaces are OpenJoin the Big Dating Nap // Dating Sanity Capsule combined programOne might as...
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Dealing with MONEY in relationships | Ep 115
Ya'll we are digging into all things MONEY today. This is a real doozy of an episode, so settle in for a long walk, a batch of laundry or whatever else you like to do while you're listening. In this episode I'm taking you behind the scenes of t...
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On Making, Maintaining and Letting Go Of Friends In Our 30s and 40s | Ep 114
On the heals of a very significant friendship ending for me in the last few years, the nature of friendship — what drives our friendships, what they look like, how our relational patterns manifest in this space (i.e. outside of romance) — has b...
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On trusting the (divine) timing of our lives + What's behind *feeling* behind | Ep 113
Private Coaching Spaces are OpenDo you feel behind in life? It's a question I face and contemplate with clients (and often myself) all the time. Today's conversation isn't o...
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The career conversation I'm having with all my 38ish friends | Ep 112
Over the last few months I've had a series of conversations with friends/colleagues (some with kids, some without), that have gone:I'm looking for a new job but I want it to be at a much smaller firm with a lot less stress/no workin...
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On being resistant to ease in your dating life — and life in general | Ep 111
Did you grow up learning to work hard, get good grades, get into the best school(s) possible, hit any academic and professional achievement that you could? I did. And I learned to love it.I learned to love, and thus value, hustle, hard ...
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You're going to have to f*ck up a lot in your dating + relationship life | Ep 110
Private Coaching Spots are Open"Dating apps have brought the promise of the business-like crispness of falling in love." Sherry TurkleIf you know my work, you know I ...
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How much is enough? In life, money, career, love, etc. w/ Catherine Zack | Ep 109
Private Coaching Spaces are OpenThis week I'm sitting down with Catherine Zack, a beloved friend of the podcast. She's been on numerous times before (I've linked those episodes be...
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A Transparent Look at My Journey Into Pregnancy (1st Trimester) | Ep 108
Private Coaching Spaces are Open In today's podcast I'm sharing what the first few months of my pregnancy have been like. My husband and I are so excited, and also, the firs...
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On being the girl who never got asked out and *now* desiring a relationship | Ep 107
Spring/Summer private coaching spots are open!Available for folks single and seeking partnership, single and seeking space/work to go inward, and folks who are couple and struggli...
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When You Just Need to Put Everything Down | Ep 106
What happens when you just hit a hall? What does that 'wall' tend to look like for you? These are questions I'm contemplating and exploring in today's episode. Across the month of April I was gearing up to launch the
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How did you know you wanted to marry your husband? (Slash how I called in my husband) | Ep 105
Preview My Upcoming ProgramWork with me PrivatelyA few weeks back a client said to me: "How did you know your husband was th...
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When you're not getting any matches on dating apps | Ep 104
Work w/ MeSneak peek my next program launchGet on my email lis...
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What do I do when I like someone and I'm not sure if they like me back? | Ep 103
Work w/ MeSneak peek my next program launchGet on my email lis...
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How making a list of all the things you want in a partner is working against you, not for you | Ep 102
In today's episode, I'm digging into a recent question from a listener:Hey Clara! What are your thoughts on a long list of requirements for a partner?Oooh this is *such* a good one, and while I'm all for getting clarity...
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Why we need to rethink our attachment styles (especially if we're anxious) | Ep 101
Private Coaching Spots are OpenGet on my email listAre you obsessed with your attachment style and "fixing"...
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My fertility journey is feeling like my dating journey — wildly unpredictable | Ep 100
In today's episode, I'm opening up about my fertility journey, and how the ups and downs, are reminding me a lot of my dating journey. Namely:How do you keep going when you feel like nothing's working in your favor?How do y...
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