I Think I Like You
A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.
Episodes
151 episodes
Letting people go, pausing dating apps, saying 'no' — all ways of actually bringing *more* momentum to your pursuit of partnership | Ep 144
In the past few weeks clients of mine have:Let go of people they really liked but ultimately weren't the right fitSlowed down their dating practice to get more out of it (i.e. more ease, more fulfillment)...
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3 ways overachievers can remain chronically single or struggling in relationships | Ep 143
In this episode I'm discussing how our propensity to work hard and get things done, and specifically the way we:Place high value on something that's hard to achieve versus finding ease in our lifeAvoid rejection and failure...
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Preparing for a relationship is not about knowing what you want and need. Here's what is. | Ep 142
A client will often say to me, "I've finally figured out what I want and need in a relationship," with the sentiment that the figuring out of that has been the piece that's missing and will now help them in finding a partner. And it's not that ...
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On going down ex boyfriend rabbit holes. And should I reach out? | Ep 141
In late August, whilst driving my 10 month old around, furiously throwing "organic" teething crackers in the back seat in hopes he would both stop crying and go to sleep (neither really happened), I mainlined a series of podcast episodes with a...
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Ep 140 | How I would meet someone if I were single, right now, at nearly 40, that I know would absolutely work.
In about 6 weeks, I turn 40. I often meet clients on the precipice of 40. There, or a little ways after, and there are always (naturally), lots of feelings that come up around hitting that threshold.Will I ever meet someone?
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2 on the surface helpful ways we can bypass the truth of our (romantic) lives | Ep 139
The obsession with healing ourselves is real, and these days, more often than not, I find myself guiding clients to pull back on all the materials and content they're ingesting in order to stop perpetuating this idea that they're "brok...
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On being chronically single | Ep 138
This is one of those episodes that came in like a force — it started with a simple question from a follower, then ballooned into like 45 more, with other followers sending random messages, recurring themes in my client work, and admittedly, eve...
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Ep 137 | This is what healthy dating actually looks like (Pssst we're back!)
What if everything you think dating should look like is actually keeping you single? Or constantly thinking you're doing something wrong or that it's not enough?It seems most of us are in the quintessential "messy middle," in every sense...
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How to know when it's time to take a break...from dating, hanging with a certain friend, or running a podcast | Ep 136
Today's decision is something I've been noodling on for the past month. I've decided to take a break from running this podcast. But I didn't want to do so without taking you behind the scenes of my decision, because while in this instance the d...
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The practitioner that healed my gut, but really, changed the trajectory of my life | Ep 135
Eight years ago, I landed myself in the office of a nurse practitioner/functional medicine specialist who specialized in gut health. I had been inexplicably bloated and exhausted for months and didn't know why. Little did I know that woman woul...
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The exact advice you need when you're tired, frustrated and feel like nothing is advancing in your life | Ep 134
March was a rough month for me. I found myself fighting the tail end of sleep training with Jude, my son. I was in a constant state of frustration around all I "wasn't" getting done. My husband and I were bickering like mad. I felt ...
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An argument for swiping left more. Yes, more. | Ep 133
In a recent Instagram post, I spoke about how many of my clients hold a fear that a relationship will swallow them whole. This isn't a misconception, as many of them ha...
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The season in life where I thought "Maybe I just don't want a relationship" | Ep 132
There was a moment about five years ago, around age 34, where I thought to myself: Maybe I just don't want a relationship.Clients will say a similar thing to me, often using language like: I'm not even sure I want ...
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This is where the feeling "I'm never going to meet someone" comes from | Ep 131
Private coaching spaces are open.Here's something I hear from clients all the time:I'm never going to meet someone.There's no one left.All the good men are gon...
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If you want something new (the new job, the new partner), you're going to have to let something go| Ep 130
Private coaching spaces are open.When we want to acquire something new, be it a new job, a new relationship, a new home, a new life experience, we tend to think of it as additive. ...
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This might be my go to marriage + dating advice for all of 2025 | Ep 129
The other week a friend sent me a clip from Instagram, and despite not being the biggest Logan Ury fan, I really got down with what she was
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I've been in therapy for years but I'm still single. What gives? | Ep 128
Here's where I meet most of my clients: They've been in therapy for years, they have a tremendous amount of awareness around their stuff — their mom issues, their dad issues, their attachment style, their insecurities, how they attract the wron...
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Why you don't need to (and shouldn't) go on a million dates to meet someone in 2025 | Ep 127
Work with me privatelyTake one of my online coursesJanuary tends to be a month rife with a lot of "I'm going to do this and...
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Embracing a slow start to 2025 and my first few weeks as a mom | Ep 126
How are you all? It's been a minute! I'm slowly coming out of my cocoon of maternity leave. I'm only working part time, if that in January. In today's episode I'm sharing what the last few weeks have been like and how I'm embracing a slow start...
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Why is sex with the people who are so wrong for us so good w/ therapist, Julia Zwerin | Ep 125
We've all had the guy (or....guys ; )) who don't communicate well, who leave us in the dark, who aren't looking for commitment or exclusivity. Maybe they're clear about it, maybe they're not. Either way, they're like a drug we can't quit — quit...
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How overachievers shoot themselves in the foot with their careers, and what we can do about it | Ep 124
How in touch are you with your curiosity? How much do you listen to it and let it guide you? In life, but especially in your work?Like many of you listening, I spent years in work and careers that I did out of obligation. A tried and tr...
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*Podcast Update* What's coming, where I've been, new courses, my maternity leave, etc.
Hello friends — it's been a minute since we've had a new episode! I'm popping in here with some updates to the podcast, my coursework, new coaching services coming and more as I prepare for my maternity leave.Links mentioned in this epi...
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How do we sit with the desire for a relationship while also not knowing when it will happen? | Ep 123
This is a question I dance with, and often, with clients. How do we sit with our desire for something, and attempt to work towards it, but not know if or when or how it's going to come to fruition? How do we do so while we watch it happening fo...
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We don't necessarily need our partners to come fully therapized, our confusion around settling, and the emotional labor necessary for us all in relationships w/ Kara Loewentheil | Ep 122
A few months prior, I caught the wedding announcement for my friend and colleague, Kara Lowentheil, in the NY Times. It wasn't the flowers or he...
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Do you believe yourself to be desirable? Do you expect to be asked out? A sneaky way you could be self sabotaging your dating life | Ep 121
What's your perception of yourself? How do you view yourself? Based on that, what do you believe is or isn't available to you? What do you think you can have? What do you think you deserve?I'm posing these questions in relation to roman...
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