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I Think I Like You

A counterintuitive approach to navigating dating and building relationships in the digital age. This is for the woman who feels disenchanted by more common dating rhetoric and sometimes even questions if she wants a relationship at all. She already lives a rich, full life. She would like to share that with someone, but not at the expense of herself. What gives? That’s where we’re digging in.

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You're going to have to f*ck up a lot in your dating + relationship life | Ep 110

May 30, 2024 • Clara Artschwager

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"Dating apps have brought the promise of the business-like crispness of falling in love." Sherry Turkle

If you know my work, you know I live for this line. It's shown up in my podcasts and online courses for years. Why? Because it so eloquently hits on the faulty promise we've attached to these tools, and the subsequent hardships we endure (largely the way we obsess and punish ourselves) because our dating life or relationship future isn't falling together in a linear, succinct fashion.

We're wracked with questions of:

Should I stay? Should I go?
What does this mean?
Who is this person?

Versus being able to be with the lived human experience of it all.

If you're someone who....

Struggles with the inability to control your dating or romantic future
Feels anxious or frustrated in the throes of getting to know someone
Can't really stay present to the current experience, but instead is so focused on the future
Feels tremendous guilt and shame when things don't work out the way you wished they had, or thought they should

....you will benefit tremendously from today's episode.

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