I Think I Like You
I Think I Like You
Oooooh ok this is how you ACTUALLY surrender, even when you still want something | Ep 163
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A few weeks back, I was perusing Instagram as one does, and I was fed Nikki Heyder's profile, based on a reel she had recently posted that went viral. And let's just say, it went viral for all the right reasons.
Nikki is a trauma-informed psychotherapist, business mentor, and author based in Bali. Her perspective is refreshingly wise and down to earth when it comes to all conversations that fall under the umbrella of, well, getting what we want out of life, understanding our obstacles and redefining who we are.
I could have taken our conversation many different directions, but my main interest was around the concept of surrender. Namely, what the hell is it and how the hell do we actually do it? How do we maintain a desire — like for a relationship— but surrender to the outcome of it?
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